Crossing the Rubicon… Africa & Africans needs a bit of love, not their leaders. Please give us a hug! Our continent has been sold to the highest bidders!

It has been a while since I updated my blog posts that gave me a platform with confidence to express my views on societal issues.

Over the last half year I have been engrossed with a project that made me forget what my favourite ‘apple crumble’ tastes like. I was so immersed in achieving a positive outcome, as we know, no projects runs without hiccups. Hence the absentia. Please forgive me my dear ‘followers’, you will be pleased that I gained and acquired much needed skills of leadership, completing a project lifecycle (and a coveted award was the icing on the cake) and whilst seeking more opportunities in the field, I have proactively started an online retail company.

The phrase ‘crossing the rubicon’ was coined when Julius Caesar marched into Rome without disbanding his armies after he was called back to Rome by the Senate after he had become too powerful. This phrase also means reaching ‘a point of no return’. Nigeria upcoming elections is again at this crossroads. My emphasis to Nigerians in particular, and with the same notion to other countries that share this resourceful lush continent, and to black people all over the world. The black race will not be respected and accorded equality unless we engaged in real human development that protects human lives more than livestock; rule of law and justice for all regardless of their class. The Asian Tigers economies achieved success by focusing on human development in line with economic growth. Please correct my viewpoints, but I believe that there is a correlation between lack of real development in Africa (and Carribbean nations) and the incessant killings of young blacks in Britain, and even the indiscriminate shootings of blacks in the greatest nation on earth that devalues the lives of the people that built the nation in the first place.

The above simply means that the might of Africa is not standing behind her people anywhere in the world, we must perhaps be the most divided race on earth. I guess this is what has led us to yearn for individualism rather than a collective notion of governance that the west adheres to with greater success.

Why do I assert that you show love to Africans and marginalized people anywhere in the world labouring to survive in an unfriendly world where the bane of racism and other forms of discrimination is never far from the surface.

I completely understand the frustration of the locals in the gorgeous Amalfi coasts of Italy seeing these ‘blackened’ bodies washing up on their shores, as well as in the blue seas of the Greek Islands. These issues are primarily the responsibilities of successive African governments that continues to fail to prioritize ‘human development’. The West also has direct responsibilities, as their historical and colonial ‘divide & rule’ was a racial engagement of subjugation, plunder of resources and exploitation. It can be argued that African leaders engaged in corruption and mis-rule learnt this trick from the same countries agitating for anti-immigration policies. This does not mean that there are no progress across Africa, there are clearly for those whose parents can ensure the guarantee of education for their wards and so on, but it pains me to look into the eyes of young kids hawking snacks and iced water in the scorched sun serving those opportune to sit at least with some comfort in their air-conditioned SUVs in the maddening Lagos traffic.

This author focal point is that there is a real price for under-development, and this has led to Africans to take extreme measures in a world where at home their lives are at risk, especially young girls in schools. Women are trafficked unabated, with all the risks of constant abuse.

It is a shame that that Africans on the corridors of power will loot their own countries resources to fund private education in western institutions at the expense of their once-renowned institutions of the past.

As Europe veers towards the right politically, it would be useful not to implement anti-immigration policies from a hate point of view. It would rather benefit both continents, if the west asserts his influence without historical biases. The real change that Africa needs cannot come from within, there are just too many unconnected dots.

Please spare a thought for that African brother trying to hustle his way via Calais or that Ethiopian sister working as a maid in Jordan, cast your aspersions not on him or her but on their respective governments that does not even know of their existence.

Much love.

I wish you peace…


A Conscious Traveller – an African viewpoint in the City of Love. (3mins Read)

I will like to consider myself a conscious traveller when visiting new places especially if those places (countries) have had interactions in the past with my beloved Africa (Afrique). This impetus was first imbibed in me as a student visiting Hong Kong in the early 2000s; we were doing late night crawling in Kowloon night market when the local police jumped out of their vans with batons to round up Chinese from the mainland for deportation. I wonder if this still occurs today since Beijing now has full control over the former British enclave.

This is in parallel to what I witnessed on a recent trip to Paris and suburbs – the City of Love. I like to look and feel beyond the aesthetic beauty of the Eiffel and the lovely boutiques displaying their arrays of luxury items on the Champs Elysees or the charming and soothing view of the River Seine.

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On my many trips to this great city I have always chosen to stay and visit the beauty spots only; however, I decided to take the family to other parts especially where the Africans resides legally and illegally – Chateau Rouge.

Oh Boy, I must say I was disappointed. My disappointed primarily lies with Africa. A continent that has continually allowed ethnic, religion and political issues; be it internal or externally imposed to stalled our developments and greatness thus allowing our young men and women to take huge personal risks to sojourn across the Sahara to conflicted Libya for further voyage to become unwanted labourers in another man’s country with no documentation.

What does it mean to live in a country where you have no status?

It means no right to live, no right to education, no right to welfare, in essence no right to LIFE thereby casting aspersion on the Universal Suffrage the city of Paris is known for. This further illustrates why these young men will take more risks by jumping into Lorries at Calais to cross the channel into Dover. If I ignorantly did not understand in the past, I do now. Any man would take such risk, because the bottom line is you die penniless on the streets in the City of Love. It appears the city of love is not reciprocating love to the illegals in Chateau Rouge.

Equally, was also disappointed to see police harassing and conducting raids in the markets where these ordinary people are trying to earn a living by selling roasted corn to their fellow kinsfolk.

Generally, any city of international reckoning will also have its own dark underbelly exposed by events as has been demonstrated across major cities from Grenfell in London, to protests in Charlottesville and more.

My summation is two-fold. Firstly, in other to stem the flow of illegal immigration to the west; the western nations (France, Britain, Germany) must not only use their influence to effect positive political changes but must move sincerely to remove the remaining invisible shackles of colonization that still restrict Africa from real development and freedom.

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Secondly, African authorities and her people must move beyond real or ‘imagined’ issues of ethnicity, tribal affiliations and endemic corruption to know that it is the continent that bears the lost when her youths are roaming aimlessly and rudderless in countries that refused them legal entry.

Please feel free to comment, share and debate.

Thank you for reading!

It takes a village to raise a child – an African proverb

This proverb implies that when a child is born, the entire community bears the responsibilities towards the upbringing and rearing of the child. They will ensure that he or she is equipped with the norms, traditions and customs of the land. The name given to the child will be in accordance with the family profession or line of work such as if they were goldsmiths, warriors, hunters or royalty.

The tribal marks below signifies the family edicts and origins of the tribes. In traditional Yoruba societies, every child is born into a patrilineal clan called idile baba in Yoruba language. The clan share clan names (orile), oriki (poetry), taboos (eewo) and facial marks (ila). The facial marks on the child assigns the child full clan membership rights. The children with facial marks are called Okola. Families or individuals lacking the normal features consistent with the tribe are not considered as acquiring full standing as agents in Yoruba society. They would also lack the capacity for meaningful behavior, such as greeting, stating and commanding.

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I must now say that these practices have now largely ceased in accordance with Child Rights Law across the land (a ban I totally support).

I sighed heavily though because now in the modern era, a lot of this precepts that gave us ‘true identity’ has now been eroded largely in part by colonialism and the unfortunate transatlantic voyages did untold and irreversible damages.

This brings me to the issue of immigration. Migrating from one part of the globe to another is what the world was built upon. People across centuries have always fled to various parts because of religious intolerance and persecutions, wars and conflicts. Some migrated because of trade in spices and commodities (such as the Silk Road), others fled because of natural phenomenon such as adverse weathers, rising sea levels, earthquakes and so on.

Humans like other species have constantly been on the move. We ‘humans’ are not created to be stagnant, we are ‘moving’ beings. Hence, it will be helpful to bear this in mind over this contentious immigrants debates in the West. Perhaps, we must ask ourselves, what role did our ancestors or (nature) play that has now resulted in having someone of different breed and colour has your neighbour, doctor, accountant or even as a lover!

The crust of my observations is that in light of modernity and enlightenment, we must hold on to the practices and customs that gave us our true meaning as a race, or culture. An example is that here in the west, there is the concept of ‘live and let live‘ – an idiom expressing the ideal of allowing each other to live their lives as each sees fit. However, sometimes this does not ring true in some cultures hence the reason for lack of assimilation and integrations in some communities.

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As an African (plus a Brit I must say), I get frustrated when I see some (and I say some in terms of few) African descents not living to the ideals of their proud origin. Frustratingly in the sense, that if we cannot correct or teach them to the norms of what is expected in fear of evading somebody space. This meant that for us as a community we have been rendered powerless in raising our children (and our neighbours children) for fear of retribution.

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In drawing to a close, we must seek to respect everybody’s rights (old and young) equally, however that respects also infers correction where it is needed. It is our collective societies that looses out in the end, if we do not correct bad behaviours in our several communities be it in the black, white or Asian communities.

Finally, the best antidote to this looming immigration issues is partly economic developments and good governance in the affected countries. People will rather stay in their own land to be part of the growth story and live their lives in accordance to their beliefs.

Let me know if you have differing thoughts and contributions…

Happy Reading!